People in your area
Find experienced support nearby—people who get what you're up against and offer straightforward advice right where you are, without the fuss.
services by area
Northland
Northland Rural Support Trust
Auckland
Waikato
Waikato-Hauraki-Coromandel Rural Support Trust
Bay of Plenty
Bay of Plenty Rural Support Trust
Gisborne
East Coast Rural Support Trust
Hawkes Bay
East Coast Rural Support Trust
Taranaki
Taranaki Rural Support Trust
Manawatū-Whanganui
Manawatu-Rangitikei Rural Family Support Trust
Wellington
Tasman
Top of the South Rural Support Trust
Nelson
Top of the South Rural Support Trust
Marlborough
Top of the South Rural Support Trust
West Coast
West Coast Rural Support Trust
North Canterbury
North Canterbury Rural Support Trust
Canterbury
Mid Canterbury Rural Support Trust
Frontiers of Hope
South Canterbury
South Canterbury Rural Support Trust
Otago
Otago Rural Support Trust
Southland
Southland Rural Support Trust
Finding help…
Find anonymous support
Sometimes it’s easier to offload to someone who doesn't know you or your area. Free, off-the-radar support gives you or a mate a safe spot to talk things through without any local gossip.
Stories, news & podcasts
Articles, interviews, and honest chats with Wiggy, rural leaders, and good mates looking out for their communities.
be a mate
When a mate, neighbour, or client isn't acting right, knowing what to say isn't always easy. You don't need a degree to help, just time for a quiet yarn, an open ear, and a bit of practical know-how to back them up.
Some FAQs about asking for help
Firstly, know you're not alone. There are many reasons you might be feeling stuck, or not having any control about the way things are going. Here are just a few of things that you may be asking.
Talk to someone you trust... be honest and reach out mental unwillingness is often unseen but once its shared is often lessened...Say something like "Hey I'm really struggling at the moment, got time for a chat?"
Many times you won't, but by reaching out and getting help and support from the right people the cause of your concerns can be addressed.
- Text or call 1737, Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 to talk to a trained counsellor, 24 hours.
- Anxiety New Zealand 0800 ANXIETY (0800 269 4389)
- Depression.org.nz 0800 111 757 or text 4202
- I Am Hope offers a range of services, with a particular focus on young people.
- Lifeline 0800 543 354
- Mental Health Foundation 09 623 4812, click here to access its free resource and information service.
- Rural Support Trust 0800 787 254
- Samaritans 0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO)
- thelowdown.co.nz Web chat, email chat or free text 5626
- What's Up 0800 942 8787 (for 5 to 18-year-olds). Phone counselling available Monday-Friday, noon-11pm and weekends, 3pm-11pm. Online chat is available 3pm-10pm daily.
- Yellow Brick Road 0800 732 825
- Youthline 0800 376 633, free text 234, email talk@youthline.co.nz
Or find online chat and other support options here.
If it is an emergency, click here to find the number for your local crisis assessment team.
In a life-threatening situation, call 111.
Nine times out of ten your gut will tell you. You may be feeling angry, helpless or feel like staying away from the people you usually enjoy spending time with. If you're reading this, then you will already be looking for someone who understands. If in doubt, just talk!
Many GPs offer free services for you to talk to. We also have a list of resources where you can find help. Ringing or texting the listed services in the FAQ "How do I find someone to talk to anonymously?" offer free advice services, so go on, give them a call.
There are many services in your community (see FAQ above), but the best thing you can do is talk to a mate, or someone in your community that knows what it the pressures are like in your region. We guarantee they know what it's like and got through the tough times, or are getting through them, by talking to someone local as well. You're not alone, you just need to reach out, lean on a gate and talk to a mate.
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Let’s have a chat
Whether you're looking for a bit of support yourself, worried about a mate, need to add your service to this list, or just want to know more about what we do, drop us a message. We’re always here for a yarn.